Dr. Christie's Links

Welcome to our Resources and Links page.

In your report, whatever your specific scores, you will have found some suggestions, hints, homework even. This page contains some sites and products that might be useful to you. Some service providers might be close enough to you to visit personally. Others may be in other countries. Ain’t the internet wonderful!

We do not necessarily endorse everything on this page nor any of the services. It is up to you to investigate further. But some ideas and ways forward can be found here. Look up some of the links that you think might be what you need. Let us know what you find and how useful the links are if you wish.

A general caution: for those who wondered if there was anything 'sleazy' in lovability.org, you might find some off-site referrals here that are 'different', 'exotic' or 'alternative', all terms which could be considered euphemisms for sleazy but in our view simply demonstrate the breadth of relatively usual relationship or sexual diversity.

To make it easier for you to find the kind of information most relevant to you, we've divided entries into the following categories:

• Therapists
• Very Personal Presentation
• Photography
• Health, Fitness & Vitality
• Readings for the Modern Woman
• Romance
• Sites of Interest
• Guides, Erotica

You can click directly on a category name to jump directly to that category.

You can recommend links to us, too; links that you have found useful already or are your favourites, We will check them out for suitability and if we include them here we will give you 2 loyalty credits. To recommend a site, email us here.

Therapists

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We hope to expand this short listing of the very best therapists in various parts of the world. Whilst the area of sexuality counselling generally is sometimes controversial – and maybe even the therapists too - most operate within broader counselling contexts and we recommend only well qualified and competent professionals. We advise that you to contact them or view their sites for details to determine their match with your issues. They may be able to make recommendations to other professionals nearer to you.

United Kingdom & Europe

Andrew Walton & Assocs.

Andrew's Private Practice is multi-faceted and enjoys a high profile and significant reputation, deservedly earned. Located in the Centre of the United Kingdom, in Coventry, it has significant links to a network of practitioners nationally and in Europe, that may be yet nearer to you. He has a virtual counselling too that you could use.

Canada

Dan East

Dan's private and confidential counselling work can be accessed by contacting him via his more vocationally based web-site. Located on the West side of the country, Dan is well connected and can make sound recommendations for closer practitioners. A rare and discrete professional, Dan understands men's issues very well.

United States

Dr. Marty Klein, Ph.D.

A great thinker who offers "straight talk on sex, love and intimacy" on his site as well as the many excellent book and articles he's written, along with CD's and audio tapes and even a Q & A section.

Very Personal Presentation

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What she wears underneath sets a tone and not just in the bedroom. But it translates there. She can present herself to the world in a range of outer clothes but what she wears next to the skin is her secret. It sets her tone. And the focus, as every woman knows, is on her. This is her domain and every little bit of helpful allure can bring dividends. In part, the same can be said for him. He can benefit from being presentable from the basics outward. There are more alluring items than y-fronts. We have some sites here that you will enjoy browsing, from really high class to the more raunchy, to suit your mood and help your partner's!

Secrets In Lace

Keeping the Romance Alive! is this site's avowed aim. Wonderful lingerie and great stockings. Special "Curvy Women" section for plus sizes. Personally endorsed by many who love their retro and seamed stockings and thigh highs for plus sized women. One of, if not the best and most glamorous clothing sites on the web and a sure-fire heat generator. Excellent mailing all over the world.

Shadowline

Another high quality, though a little more demure in its offerings, site. Caters for the more mature women as well as the young. Great mailing service.

Bare Necessities

One of the BIG lingerie retailers. Good range from comfortable to special occasion.

Jane Woolrich

Whoever thought that the English rose was a wallflower? This designer produces the most sensuous, sophisticated lingerie for the most discerning taste. Rediscover the slip. You will want to sleep with yourself!

Leather lingerie

...and other special feature items to bring out the anaimal in you.

Queen Fashions

Sweet Lingerie

Photography

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You are the very best subject in the world. Even your partner comes a close second. You will have local photographers of course, perhaps even a favourite. Here is the best on the internet for you to look through for ideas regarding what you, yourself might do or even tell your own artist what you want. You can buy prints from a range of artists to suit your own tastes.

Michelle 7

The ultimate collection of different photography styles with an erotic flavour and great taste.

Afterglow

MYTH: "You need lots of expensive equipment to do photography." TRUTH: This may hold true for general commercial photography, but you can do art photography with a pinhole camera. Anyone has a digital these days, anyway.

Health, Fitness & Vitality

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Listed here are some general health, fitness and dieting sites along with organic and pharmacological helpers that you might find useful. Check them out. We haven’t tried them ourselves but are assured that they can provide some help especially for those who are in need of health and fitness and libido products. Have a look at them, and always consult your own Doctor.

Women’s Pharmacy

Specifically with women in mind. All your needs here we understand. Check it out.

OK Kungfu

Herbal remedies and a unique physical regime for enhancing men’s sustainability, if you get our drift, or you can take a more physical exercise route to enhancement. Tiedang Gong was originally a kind of martial arts practiced by those practitioners to protect their key and weak part of the whole body -- testis.

Canadian Prescription drugs

For more regular prescription drugs for improving health and vitality you could try this well regarded link. Much cheaper in bulk of course.

General health needs

All types of health issues for men and women – USA.

Women to Women Health

Personal programs – hormonal issues.

Slimplant

Wieght loss through organics.

Viriliplant

For him. Getting up and on in the world.

Potensan

libido enhancer herbs.

Body works

Nutritional programs for men and women

Extendlife

New Zealand based. Down under vigoor.

Organic Health & Beauty

Healthy and vital, inside and out.

Readings for the Modern Woman

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Saskia

One of the best writers of erotic short stories and books loved by women, Saskia has been signed by Penguin Books to write for HEAT, their erotica specialty line, as a recognition of her talent and appeal. She is based in the UK and has a lovely site. Very worthwhile visiting.

WendyMcElroy.com

Ayn Rand was the leading intellectual woman of her generation. Shockingly so. Today there are 183.000 Google references for Wendy McElroy. Wendy is today's leading individualist feminist, a powerhouse example of what the modern woman with intellect and integrity can do. She is what Feminism aspired to produce. The intelligent, modern man's benchmark too. Check out her books and papers on her home site.

http://www.zetetics.com/mac/index.shtml

Wendy McElroy is the editor of Freedom, Feminism, and the State (CATO 1982, Holmes & Meier 1992), XXX: A Woman's Right to Pornography (St. Martin's, 1995), Sexual Correctness: The Gender Feminist Attack on Women (McFarland, 1996), The Reasonable Woman: A Guide to Intellectual Survival (Prometheus, 1998) and Queen Silver: The Godless Girl (Prometheus, Dec. 1999). She is a contributing editor to several periodicals -- including Ideas on Liberty, Liberty and Free Inquiry -- and has published in such diverse magazines as National Review, Penthouse and Marie Claire. Ms. McElroy lives with her husband in Canada.

Amazon

For pretty well any book. Discounts galore.

Flat but Proud

For more women that you can shake a stick at.

Mastering Emotions

Courses offered as well as readings.

Romance

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This most important area, so often overlooked, needs some focus by most couples. A little goes a long way but a bit too little does not.

Love Cards

It's so easy when you have an order in place. Special anniversaries and even the weekly top up will never be forgotten again. These adult love ecards are not free, but the very small membership fee is well worth it. Why settle to sending free generic greeting cards when you can truly impress your sweetheart with our high quality, special effect, musical, customizable greetings? In addition, you will have access to many resources like Love Letters, Special Romantic Ideas, Most Sensual Bedroom Tips, Hot Screensavers for couples etc... All this will surely heat up the passion and keep it burning. The romantic surprise of sensual cards, the anticipation of a sensual encounter, the thrill of receiving and giving true tokens of love - adds up to truly memorable moments to be cherished and fondly remembered.

Gifts

Looking for something special, unusual? Look here.

Sites of Interest

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Feminists 4 Fathers

A very helpful, informative and loving look at Fathers and Families from a leading Feminist Blogger. Teri is a Californian (USA) single mom and grandma, children's advocate and founder of The Respite Center for Parent and Child and Shared Parenting Works.

R.A.D.A.R.

R.A.D.A.R. – Respecting Accuracy in Domestic Abuse Reporting – is a network of concerned men and women working to assure that the problem of domestic violence is treated in a balanced and effective manner.

Krights Radio

Wonder why none of the attempts to bring about Equal Parenting have succeeded? Krights Radio tells you.

LuvCube Find, Live and Enjoy Love

A site with a treasure trove of ideas, articles and information on finding, living and enjoying love - just as the link says!

Guides, Erotica

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Libido Magazine

Dr. Jack Hafferkamp's on-line magazine of high quality erotica, fiction, humor, news and essays, a calendar of erotic events, reviews, and a large list of resources that could interest you.

Adam & Eve's

A site that offers a wide variety of movies and toys including my Femme line of "woman-friendly" erotic movies, and Nina Hartley's line of informative and sexy "how to" videos about all sorts of sexual techniques and practices.

Absolutely Paradise

Full of fun goodies for couples.

Nina Hartley

A very naughty lady. Nina Hartley's personal web site.

Explicit 'How-to' Videos

High quality sensuous instructional videos covering many topics from erotic massage to sensuous role-playing to anal sex. Also offers great info including "Sexuality Encyclopedia", a resource list and lists of questions answered by their Director of Sex Education, Mark Schoen, Ph.D.

DIY

Betty Dodson became known as the "mother of masturbation" for her wonderful workshops on "self-loving". Her site offers advice along with the many books and videos she's done, my favorite being, "Self-Loving: Video Portrait of a Women's Sexuality Seminar".

Crossing over

This official site for "boys who want to be girls" is of special interest for wives and significant others whose man "loves to wear a dress", otherwise known as cross-dressing. Both the site's "Wives & Partners" page as well Ms. Vera's latest book, "Miss Vera's Cross-Dress for Success: A Resource Guide for Boys who Want to be Girls", have good info for women.

More 'Instructional' Videos - Access Instructional Media

Dr. Michael Perry's line of erotic instructional videos, featuring attractive people and many topics. Of special interest is "The Amazing G-spot".

Tantra

Both sensuous and educational videos and books that are "innovative, fun, enlightening, educational, spiritual and sexy" related to Tantra and Sacred Sexuality.

Urban Tantra

Barbara conducts worshops on "Urban Tantra", as well as a book by the same name,for "those who live in intense urban environments". She has created a unique blend Tantra and SM.

Toys for the Discerning

Sexy cruelty-free synthetic sex toys made from sleek black "pleather" imported from Italy, a lubricant that's safely tested without harming animals, and SM play-things.

UK. PassionOnline

Superstore

Mainly for "adults". Wink, wink.

Passion Shop